Without trust nothing else is possible. BDSM is the balance of the physical, the emotional and the spiritual connection between a Sir and His boy. Once that bond is made there is no end to what can happen. With trust and training a boy can learn to accept pain from his Sir and in time come to crave and even need it. My boy has grown and now begs for pain from his Sir. This honors Me as his Sir and keeps the connection between U/us strong. I am proud of My boy.